Week #40 Fathers Day
Sister Schlachter and I were asked to speak in our church services last Sunday. We were not given topics, only a time limit - 13 minutes each. It was Fathers Day in Mexico just as it was in Canada, so that was my topic. Somewhere in my life, I heard someone say that a boy doesn't become man until his father dies and for some reason this thought stuck with me until now. Doing a bit of digging, I found the thought is attributed to Sigmund Freud, the 'father' of talk therapy which now helps many people with mental illness. My dad died on March 4 of this year - according to Freud, does that now set me up to finally become a man? Digging even deeper, I couldn't find the exact quote but what I did find was this, “A father’s death is the most important event, the more heartbreaking and poignant loss in a man’s life.” I spent a lot of time with my dad as we farmed together until 1992. Sister Schlachter observed that we didn't and didn't need to talk when we worked toge...